why am i disturbed by it? no matter how my emotions are, if things meant to happen it will happen. for instance, for exams results, no matter how worried we are the day before results is released, it is not going to change our grades. same goes to many more things in life. we have to identify what is within and what is beyond our control. focus on the things which we CAN control and try to avoid placing too much emotions in things which are beyond our control, it is not helping and it actually stops us from becoming greater.