Take this as a game they said, it will be fun they said

yes yes. I m referring to this thing called "relationship".

nowadays it seems to be normal to us that a 12 year old kid in a relationship, not the innocent boy-girl-friend that kind, nore like something already more than..2nd base? They will just refer each other as husband and wives, having all sorts of intimate photos of them in their blog or facebook, declaring their feelings to each other. sex-ting and all is so damn common among them.

nowadays it seems to be ok that you have more than 5 boy or girl friends in the past when you are still 17. They meet each other, texing or contacting each other non-stop for few months, or even few days and poof- wheee we are a happy couple omg we should meet each other earlier is like we are already meant for each other before we meet each other omgish i can't live without you

and more of course, but due to my lack of vocabulary i decided to stop on this.

whether is me being conservative, or I m getting too old for this new-kind of relationship thing. The new-kind of relationship thing that I refer to is the ones all of us can see it from dramas , movies and tv shows. they meet, they flirt, they reached the third base, ditch the person and seeking for new prey again. is like they are trying to fu**zone the girls or guys they meet. or in nicer terms friends with benefits, not strings attached etc etc. No hard feelings, still keep as friends.

Forgive and forget huh?

How is it possible to feel alright when being treated like a Kleenex?

How can someone pretend we-are-cool-with-this-nothing-happened-between-us-before-lets-stay-as-friends
































they can be all cheesey, lovey-dovey are treat you as if you are the only person that they care about in the world. the next moment, "oh sorry i think you deserve a better person" pfft one of the lamest excuse I have ever heard. if you really like or love that person, you will always try to be the best for them, always be there for them no matter what happens. Not saying that they are too good for you and the next day we all will see you with another person.

Yeah, maybe to the ones that not in your shoe might say, "at least you guys still had some good memories". hell. that is the worst part. holding on something but not having it, you can't even declare that you lose it. you don't even own it at the first place, how is it possible you actually lose it?

another biggest lie "I will never leave you alone"


yeah yeah sounded so sweet right? if you think of anther way. what if this is a line from horror movies? still sounded as something which is sugary-coated?

no one has the responsibility to stay forever or never leaving a person. and no one can't live without another person. unless that person in charge of your oxygen intake or pacemaker in your heart. That is a rare and special case, hopefully you will get well soon or miracles happen so you will not have to rely on anyone anymore.

The kind of relationship that I think which is normal is something on the serious side. Commitment. Both still be their own self, is just that after meeting each other they help each other and themselves to improve say by day. It should be something constructive, not something which narrows your social circle, away from friends and family. Not something to be ashamed of, nor boasting around. Family and friends will give blessings on it.

Love when you are ready, not when you are lonely.

When you have meet the right one, you will know that you are ready. #truestory

How I meet your mother is one of my favorite show. Yea lots of you love Barney and I ve gotta admit the level of his awesomeness is just too damn high. but hello think again, the way he treats most of the girls he meet. It's not wrong or sinful to be dumb, the one who knows that the dumb one is gullible and still wanna trick or take advantage of them--that person is one of a kind of ass-hole. or even worse.

to all the scumbags out there, do you know there's such thing called as karma?




P/S: There are still happy endings. Therefore in order to attract the good ones, we ourselves must be a better person too :)